For men: Here’s how to handle women with a high s*x drive

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For men: Here’s how

to handle women with

a high s*x drive.

Men feel stressed out, and dejected with a smashed ego when they feel that they are not able to satisfy their partner.Having a high s*x drive is very common for women which often leads to frustration especially if their partner is the opposite.It’s easier said than done when it comes to being open about your desires if you feel they aren’t the same as your partner.


But there’s no need to feel guilt or shame about having a different s*x drive to the person you’re with, we all have very different libidos which are constantly fluctuating, so it is only natural that a lot of relationships will end up with conflicting s*x#al desires.


Here are some ways of dealing with mismatched s*x drives that are more practical:

Do not take it personally

A couple rarely has their s*xual libido in sync because in most cases women have a higher drive. But the key here is not to take it personally and feel rejected. Instead, take it in your stride and do what you think may work best for her. Do not underestimate yourself.



Sometimes, lethargy and being unfit contribute to sad s*x lives. If your partner has a higher s*x drive then you can try working out and strengthening your core and the muscles so that you do not get tired so soon. It is not a guaranteed solution, but it does help and it makes you fit too so it is a win-win situation.


Brainstorm ideas

If your partner has a high s*x drive then brainstorm an idea with her to see how can she too feel that satisfaction. She may even be happy masturbating without you. If she is good with using a s*x toy and doing it on her own sometimes, there is satisfaction and you too do not feel that burden or stress. If you want to be involved, join her!



Many couples even with high s*x drives, take lesser time to climax when there is body contact like massages. Try massage where you rub each other with your body instead of hands using oil.



Some couples who do not have set rules and have different boundaries when it comes to s*xual pleasure involve a third and fourth person. Threesomes and foursomes are not unique or unknown to us. As long as there is a clear understanding, you both can discuss the involvement of someone and see whether this option is on the table or not. Do remember that trust is very important here.

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